My Wife, My Ex-Wife, and ME!
Imagine a groundbreaking podcast where your current wife and your ex-wife share a mic. In this captivating podcast, Denny takes center stage as he navigates conversations with Jamie, his ex-wife, and Amanda, his present wife, using nothing but a microphone to untangle the complexities of their intertwined lives. Together, they explore the challenges and triumphs of parenting, tackling sensitive subjects such as divorce, co-parenting, and the emotional journey of overcoming cancer while cheering on their shared daughter, Audrey. Throughout the episodes, our trio courageously confronts the realities of their relationships, discussing adoption, the dynamics of blended families, and the sometimes turbulent waters of step-parenting. This podcast invites listeners into an authentic dialogue about life and family, emphasizing the theme of "parenting without excuses." With humor, honesty, and heartfelt insight, Denny, Jamie, and Amanda offer a refreshing perspective on what it truly means to support one another as co-parents and navigate the complexities of modern family life.
My Wife, My Ex-Wife, and ME!
Leanne Part TWO...It's ALWAYS Two With Her. Oh, and OnlyFans!
Ever wondered how a simple boudoir photo shoot can set off a career? This week, join us for a lively and unfiltered chat as Leanne takes the guest host seat and shares the surprising genesis of her modeling journey. We dive headfirst into the world of art versus ulterior motives, shedding light on the murky waters between legitimate photographers and those just looking for a thrill.
What happens when your mom's TikTok escapades go rogue? Leanne reveals her family's endearing quirks, from her parents' enduring 40-year marriage to her mom's boundary-pushing antics online. Our conversation takes a modern twist as we explore Leanne's OnlyFans success, discussing the art of engagement and the strategic use of provocative language. We tackle the complexities of online interactions, the role of moderators in maintaining a positive environment, and the economic dynamics that fuel personalized content. Through candid anecdotes and self-deprecating humor, Leanne offers an intriguing peek into her digital entrepreneurship.
From bedroom behaviors to dating realities, this episode doesn't shy away from the nitty-gritty. Hear Leanne's bold dating adventures and unique challenges, including her unconventional anatomical features. We also address a listener's dilemma about a long-distance relationship, providing heartfelt advice on navigating trust and infidelity. As we discuss the emotional turmoil of betrayal and the road to resilience, the importance of authenticity and staying true to oneself shines through. Tune in for a heartfelt, humorous journey that celebrates the connections and meaningful conversations our podcast fosters.
I'm Amanda, the wife, and I'm Jams, the ex-wife, and I'm Brayden, just the future.
Speaker 3:Allow me to introduce myself. My name is Denny Broins. I'm the only man dumb enough to get his wife and ex-wife in a studio to do a podcast. And here it is my wife, my ex-wife and me.
Speaker 4:That peace and happiness might be found there. You gave me hope and now, now, we have to say goodbye.
Speaker 3:Ouch, and I gotta say, say for all the fools who fell?
Speaker 2:for the first girl who?
Speaker 4:comes their way. Way. I've been down that road and now I'm back sitting on square one, one trying to pick myself up where I started from my wife, my ex-wife and me, starts now, Starts right now.
Speaker 3:Welcome to this week's edition of my Wife, my Ex-Wife, Me and Leanne. I think we have to almost change the name of the show on this one.
Speaker 3:So you're going to get a little. We talk about this in the show. You're going to get a little inside baseball this week, and here's the inside baseball. You're going to get a little inside baseball this week, and here's the inside baseball you're going to get. Right now, you're going to get inside baseball because usually we do the interview and then we do the, what we call the in and the out, so we record what you'll hear before the interview and then we'll record what you'll hear after. We didn't even do that.
Speaker 2:Leanne was so great she so great, she just stayed on, she just stayed on and did ands and jams with us, if I can.
Speaker 3:Easy for me to say and so there was no out, so you're getting the in. This is being recorded following the show Post, post-haste, post-production actually, but actually not post-production, because we haven't produced it yet. But I will, don't worry. You know what? Let's do some introductions, shall we? Brayden is not here today. I was going to wait until his introduction. He's on assignment this week, not true? We kicked him off. He can't be kicked off, but Leanne is trying to take a spot.
Speaker 1:She's a good runner up.
Speaker 3:Good runner up. I think she's got the spot and he's going to have to work his way back in.
Speaker 1:You're going to have to fight for it.
Speaker 3:Braden, if you're listening to this young man, get busy. Hey, let's talk to my ex-wife. She's to my left, her name is Jams. You ruined everything you stupid bitch, so stupid.
Speaker 5:You ruined everything. You stupid, stupid bitch. You're just a lying little bitch who ruins things and wants the world to burn Bitch Ah, you're a stupid bitch.
Speaker 1:And lose some weight, say jams, hello, you know um. I wonder if people wonder if this song makes me happy, and it does, it does, it makes me very happy. Every time it's played I'm like, I'm a bit you like your intro. I do. I did a nice job finding that, yeah, and I hope the world burns like my son burned her.
Speaker 3:You had a nice day at the lake today, is that right?
Speaker 1:Yeah, yeah, we did Audrey's like little last thing before she goes back to school, because I haven't had a lot of time with her this summer.
Speaker 3:Last summer I wasn't working, so I do want to point out it was my weekend I know and she's here. Well, she's here now. My weekend starts on friday okay and we're recording this late on saturday, so I I really don't get her until sunday, so will I be compensated?
Speaker 1:sure you're yawning into the microphone. Will I be compensated? Um? Apparently audrey doesn't think that you guys need to buy her school supplies, oh tell this story.
Speaker 3:This is funny.
Speaker 1:I took her school shopping. I told you Spent quite a bit of money. Why?
Speaker 3:won't you say how much?
Speaker 1:$380.
Speaker 3:$380 for one child One child. You got her two shirts and one pair of shoes Damn near Probably, and I did not buy.
Speaker 1:I did buy a book bag. I did, we did buy a book bag. So that's the only like school supply thing that we bought. And I said, oh, I'm gonna tell your dad he has to buy your school supplies. Oh, no, you don't tell. You can't tell daddy to do that.
Speaker 3:Daddy's girl right there.
Speaker 1:I said why, Well, he shouldn't have to do that?
Speaker 3:She is correct.
Speaker 1:I said why he goes. Well, I don't know, he just shouldn't have to. I'm not going to ask him to do that. I said OK, I will. He doesn't pay me child support, don't know, he just shouldn't have to. I'm not gonna ask him to do that. I said, okay, I will. He doesn't pay me child support. And she's like oh. I said yeah, so this is like his child support and he pays it once a fucking year.
Speaker 3:Okay, it's not even that much money but you don't know how much we spend on school supplies she was so adamant that she was defending her dad.
Speaker 1:Yeah, I'm like I'll talk to Amanda. I saw Amanda. I was like, hey look, I'm gonna need you about the school supplies.
Speaker 3:We will kick you some cash for the.
Speaker 1:No, no, no, I don't. I just need you guys by school supplies.
Speaker 2:Well, we're going to have to have some of those clothes come here because she won't wear anything that's here. Why? Because it's not new. Oh, she's awful. If she wants, once she gets something new. Everything that's old is no longer good enough.
Speaker 1:Yeah, no, I know that, but yeah. So we went to the Silver Beach and we hung out. Today I got burnt and yeah.
Speaker 3:School starts this week. School starts this week. Yeah, it's too early, too early. We should have a school teacher on to talk about the change you know what I'm saying. Like when it became, you go back to school before you know first week of august. That's stupid, this is.
Speaker 2:I think this is the earliest I've ever seen.
Speaker 3:Yes, it is. There are Kokomo schools. Went back in July.
Speaker 2:Yeah, noblesville started last Wednesday. They started on the first August 1st.
Speaker 3:Oh, did they really.
Speaker 2:Yeah, they started. Kokomo started on. The first Noblesville schools started July 31st. Back to school Monday. I know what.
Speaker 3:Back to school Monday Meet the teacher Yep, yeah, oh shit, there's a phone call about it.
Speaker 2:What time You're probably going to have to take my kid too.
Speaker 1:Okay, what kid? Which one?
Speaker 3:Oh. Braxton the only other one that goes.
Speaker 1:I'm with you.
Speaker 3:Let's do some more introduction, shall we? We're going to roll right into Amanda.
Speaker 2:But you're still a peckerhead, peckerhead and you've got shit for brains.
Speaker 3:I was doing Peckerhead. I did a little thing.
Speaker 2:What did you do while I was napping?
Speaker 3:As you listen. Oh no, this has been working for a little bit. Okay good, and I don't even like this. If you're listening, Amanda starts talking about it. Listen later. If you're listening, Amanda starts talking about it, Listen later and you'll hear Amanda talk about kind of being mean. It kind of matches across from me. Is my beautiful wife Amanda? Definitely not. Yeah, we're not saying that either. She's hot. She's hot, Is that you? I don't want to say that. Say hello Amanda. Say hello amanda. You realize that said the p word and you left it in.
Speaker 1:well, that's because I had to take out all the n words, nope can't say that I'm not doing that one either my voice with it every time it came on.
Speaker 3:Um, that was awful. I love that song.
Speaker 2:I couldn't understand what they were saying half the time.
Speaker 3:It is an aggressive song. If you listen to the I felt it If you listen. But here's the thing I'm an aggressive person. Amanda will punch a bitch right in the face. Yeah, amanda also has a trunk. Yeah, that the men would like to get into Dunk-a-dunk. I'm just saying I located this song on TikTok. I searched it out, you know who sings this song. Her name is Scarlip, scarlip, scarlip. I could play it for you right now.
Speaker 1:Makes sense, nope.
Speaker 3:It's a good song.
Speaker 2:Nope, there was. It's great good job. You don't like it as much as you're. I don't. I can't understand what she's saying. Yeah, don't, don't, there was too much going on.
Speaker 1:scarlet has some things wrong with her mouth, oh no. She says she's hot, you're also hot.
Speaker 2:That was just puss oh puss, oh right.
Speaker 4:That's enough.
Speaker 3:Hey. This week, as you're listening to the show, you'll hear that word.
Speaker 2:Puss is the word, is the least of your concerns.
Speaker 3:Yeah, we talk about a lot. Look, this goes from this week, goes from an interview to just talking to an old friend would you guys agree with that?
Speaker 4:sharing sex stories, yeah, oh yeah, well, not just cut that out right, no, everything's in jams.
Speaker 3:Talks once again about being heard. And would that? Would it be called purring growled?
Speaker 1:noises really wish, I would have said that too late.
Speaker 3:It's out there. You've said it before, not that one the mouth yes, you have, oh, the mouth breathing. All of them all of them, it, all of them, all of them. It's not Caleb, is it Both of them?
Speaker 1:No, no, I wouldn't. Well, I don't know.
Speaker 3:Maybe you're into it with him. So, hey, Leanne, thank you for coming on once again. Sorry, Braden isn't here on assignment this week. He'll be back next week. It's a really good thing he wasn't here, though it's a good thing he wasn a much bigger turn than I expected. But here's another piece of breaking news Leanne will be coming back. Leanne is back for our first Part three. It's our first three consecutive three-peat. Yeah, we've had Kyla on three or four times, but never in a row.
Speaker 3:But never, three weeks in a row, so we have had people on two weeks, but this is going to be I have sand in my crack, in your what my butt crack I've got sand.
Speaker 1:Fake news, not fake. You realize everything's connected. Yeah, I know, I really need to go home and shower.
Speaker 3:You realize we're on the podcast, wow.
Speaker 1:Yeah, yeah, and you're going to love this interview with Leanne. I had so much fun. Now James has to go wash her butt crack and now I have to go wash my butt crack.
Speaker 3:There you have it. I don't think I can follow up any better with that. You can't.
Speaker 6:We'll catch you on the other side If you'd like to make a call please hang up and try again.
Speaker 4:And now on with the show.
Speaker 3:We may be missing a Brayden this week on the podcast Not with us More to come on that but we do have a return trip from last week's podcast with the Lady Leanne, one of our favorites.
Speaker 2:Double dipping, you might say.
Speaker 3:Double. I have to give applause on that. Just by itself. That's why I married her. Amanda can be quite funny. Welcome back to the show, Leanne. I love it.
Speaker 6:Thank you for having me. I'm so happy to be back and with the children's headset and the microphone.
Speaker 3:So if you're watching on youtubecom forward slash at TGC SOD, you can see that Leanne is with us and she is wearing what she describes as a child's headset. Oh, but Bluetooth, and it has a microphone and if we're being honest and you watched last week this does sound pretty good, but it does look like it fits.
Speaker 1:Also, I really like it.
Speaker 2:It's orange and white, I like orange?
Speaker 6:Yeah, I did not know it was child until I got there. I also thought you guys were going to say the cleavage outfit. I thought that's what you were going for. The headphones yes.
Speaker 1:Well, we also have the cleavage outfit. We did, we did that. We have to notice there is cleavage.
Speaker 4:Cleavage, you're so excited.
Speaker 1:I got nervous.
Speaker 3:Leanne, I'm sorry, your clean bench threw me off and I appreciate it.
Speaker 6:Yes, it's for the viewers, that's right. I'm doing it for the views, doing it for the teams and boy does it work? I say look me in the boobs when I'm talking to you.
Speaker 3:So there, so there so when we last left you, leanne, we had an abrupt ending because we lost signal at the worst possible time and if I were a good journalist, I would have went back to see what we were talking about. Are we journalists? I remember you do. What were we talking about when we got cut off?
Speaker 6:um, I think we were just going into talking about um, I I'm not sure if it was about if I got into the world of uh only fans and nude stuff because of my mom being in that that uh world yes or it was something about my mom, something about her while I listened, uh yeah I don't know if I answered it well, but you kind of remember, so just start us right back up, pick up where we left off yeah, well, I mean, oh, you think I'd have an answer prepared.
Speaker 6:I yeah, well, no, the thing I was gonna say is that I feel back. This doesn't have anything to do with two vaginas, but it was, and I also feel free to cut me off if I've told any of the stories before, because no, you're fine, I will tell them over and over on the live stream, if you tell us twice it works Everything twice two vaginas.
Speaker 6:It all makes sense, um, but no, I think I didn't go that route because of my mom. But, um, I I got. I went that route because of just getting my ex-husband that boudoir photo shoot the naked one and then from there the photographer saying you should be a model and I said okay, and then I went from there and uh realized that you make 25 an hour doing bikini or 125 an hour doing nude modeling. Is that right? It's that?
Speaker 3:much of a disparity between clothed and not clothed, barely clothed, and not well, and I'll I'll tell you something.
Speaker 6:So back this is like 10 or 15 years ago, but there was a website you would go on to find photographers to work with, and some of them would actually do work like art right, and then you'd have something called a GWC, which is a guy with camera and those are the ones that would those are just
Speaker 6:the fetishes, giant white yeah, that's, hilarious but those are the ones that would pay the best. However, that was probably the biggest insult. If a photographer thought you called them that, which you never would, but behind the scenes the girls would say, oh, he's a gwc, he's just, he really just wants you there to be naked and, yeah, take photos in his studio in the basement.
Speaker 3:That's not a not a studio at all that's never going to go anywhere, besides this guy having pictures of you in his basement for the spank, basically, yeah it's lots of weird scenarios there, but we'll go into that. So how were you? I have a question already. Yeah, out of the gate, you mentioned your mother and we've talked about your mom is going to be a guest. Have you confirmed with mom, by the way?
Speaker 6:yep, um, she's a little nervous, she she said. She said, well, can you be on there with me, and I don't know if that's would be too many people, but I can definitely help her through it If she. Whatever, you could cut this out If you need to.
Speaker 3:whatever she needs to be comfortable, we'll make it happen, Yep.
Speaker 6:I won't take over the conversation. She's she's good at taking over the conversation on her own sure so but I think she just she's nervous, but she wants to do it, she absolutely wants to do it well.
Speaker 3:We look forward to having her on and you mentioned you mentioned some apprehension because of your mother when you started doing some modeling stuff. Um, how did you get over that? Um apprehension as far as were you, were you nervous about your mom seeing how you made your living, or anything like that?
Speaker 6:no, uh, no, the only one. And this is the thing my dad said the best thing, because obviously that's a weird thing. Um, you don't want that. Like, my mom is different. She's my mom and and she'll probably talk about this but you know, she was, she's been addicted to drugs most her life. She just got off them. So we're just rebuilding our relationship. It doesn't feel very, it didn't feel very motherly growing up, so so it didn't really feel weird, but recently we've gotten a lot closer and she'll she's very open about that. Um, but I was going to say that, uh, my dad, when he found out that I got the playboy thing, he said we were driving in the car and he goes leanne, I just want you to know that he's like I heard that you did the playboy thing and I just want you to know I love you, I'm proud of you, but I never want to see it and I thought that's the greatest thing.
Speaker 6:Um he could have said because please don't ever see it like yeah, he's like, you have my approval, just do whatever you want, but I just never want to see it Like same.
Speaker 3:We're good. As the father of three daughters, I would not want to see it.
Speaker 6:No, but I did appreciate him like at least clearing the elephant in the room, because you know it's like. I know my mom tells him stuff but we don't talk about me and dad. That's. You know, he's my dad.
Speaker 3:So your mom and your dad are still married. Oh yeah, how long have they been married?
Speaker 6:Over 40 years. Wow, yeah, he loves her unconditionally and they're just very yeah, they're very sweet. My dad's a very sweet man and my mom is very sweet too. Now that we have her back, she's sweet, You'll see Good for her.
Speaker 3:Yeah and good for you yeah.
Speaker 6:Seriously, week You'll see Good for her and good for you. Yeah, seriously.
Speaker 2:Good for your dad. I mean, that's so great, everybody all hanging in together.
Speaker 3:Do they ever see you on TikTok?
Speaker 6:My mom just got back on there. They banned her three times, so you have to understand how naughty she is online.
Speaker 3:What did they ban her for? Why did they ban her?
Speaker 6:I should have sent you guys her Instagram link beforehand. They they banned her, for I told her you can't be wearing these short skirts with your crotch nearly hanging out, essentially, and she wanted to push the rules and so she got banned and she was really like she went into like a little like depression, I think tiktok, she was really obsessed with it and when she lost it she was just so bummed out. So she has it back.
Speaker 3:so now I think she'll probably tune in once in a while she'll just do like uh, she'll just leave like I don't know, two or three inches below the skirt so she doesn't get banned you know, I, I, I hope so.
Speaker 6:You know, she put up a post in herself in a cowgirl outfit that, and she said goodbye, goodbye, mom, and because you know, my grandpa, my grandma, recently passed away. But she made it look like it was her that passed away and everyone was like her name is lily bell in there. They're like how did you pass? And my mom, she's eating up the attention. She loved that. People thought she passed away and it was just, it's all a bizarre thing, um, but you'll see, she, she's great, she's uh.
Speaker 6:I don't even think you guys are ready for what you'll um encounter that sounds.
Speaker 2:She sounds so interesting.
Speaker 3:Yeah, that's what I'm excited to talk to her, not as we're excited to talk to you.
Speaker 6:She's got a life of stories and I can't wait to hear lady of the night.
Speaker 3:drug use Like you know all of that is interesting.
Speaker 2:And married for 40 years. Married for 40 years through all of it.
Speaker 6:That's incredible.
Speaker 2:Hell, honey. And then the kleptomania.
Speaker 3:All of your four wives combined I haven't made 40 years total yet.
Speaker 6:You know, you'll get there.
Speaker 2:I will, god willing, you know it's their Sunday rendezvous.
Speaker 6:That I hate, that I know about, but okay, you know, yeah, their Sunday rendezvous.
Speaker 2:She told us last time she he chases her around the house and then he catches her.
Speaker 6:Yeah, yeah yeah, we do. That's the day that we just don't bother mom and dad hey, listen, you don't.
Speaker 3:You dad doesn't want to know about your playboy, you don't want to know about him chasing her around naked oddly empty.
Speaker 6:I've learned too much though on, because mom on tiktok she loves to tell everyone. So I always say, if I have to know, you guys have to know what we apparently do for science.
Speaker 3:So Leanne what I love about you is your look, I'm just going to throw it out there. You have such a sweet disposition. You guys are so nice, you are friendly, you're approachable, you're easy to talk to. Approachable, you're easy to talk to. You're. You're to some degree even a little self-deprecating. You know where you. You know you kind of set yourself up to to have people talk about you and fuck those people first of all sorry but yeah, but so I say all of that to say this I went to OnlyFans, as you say, for science.
Speaker 1:For science Look at my face. It looks red on here anyway.
Speaker 6:Well, because it's probably not as scientific as you might have thought it might have been, it's definitely not scientific and I am having a hard time matching the words I've read. I realized I wouldn I probably read I know because I send out their, their mass messages. So everyone gets to say you know, it's how I sell stuff and I, I am there's no, it's awesome.
Speaker 3:It's incredible to me.
Speaker 6:I have to use the words that are going to sell it. And it's probably calling it certain phrases they love to hear. It's the the weirder the better. I'm good at the clickbait, so I got to write the weird stuff.
Speaker 3:That's what I'm saying. That's why you're so good at it, because, like, as I was reading through it, I was like I, like I was blushing almost.
Speaker 2:Sitting down here in the basement by yourself, sitting in the basement by myself saying hey, I interviewed her, I think.
Speaker 3:I can take pictures of her in my basement.
Speaker 1:Yeah, gwc on the way. Gwc, baby, and it's not the other one you thought it was.
Speaker 3:Don't laugh at that, leanne. Don't you laugh at that?
Speaker 6:Yes, I see the blush. I could realize I feel blushing thinking about what you write because I know what I put out this week.
Speaker 3:Now, to be fair, there were no videos. I mean there were, but you had to pay and I thought you had free content on there. Do you do?
Speaker 6:no, free content. Oh, that's the catch. You don't make a ton of money on a free page without selling stuff.
Speaker 3:Well, no, I totally agree. That's why I think this is so interesting.
Speaker 6:Yeah, so that's the thing. My girlfriend, carlotta carlotta, I'll give her credit um, when she, you know, got me into this, um, she was like leanne, the free page is the way to go. That's how you make money. She's like the more people you have to sell to, the better a paid page they'll come and go. A free page they'll stay and they'll expect to not spend money. But you, you do the long game with them.
Speaker 1:So one of these days one of those yeah, so one of those.
Speaker 6:it's like having 40,000 people to spam to as opposed to losing the subscriber when they they don't want to spend the money anymore. So they'll move on. So you know.
Speaker 3:Do they just get to a point where they say, okay, I've spent my 12 bucks for six months. I'm not going to see anything any different, so I'm going to take my $12 and put it somewhere else? Is that how it happens? $12 for one month?
Speaker 6:No, that's sometimes, you know, and there are a lot that stick around on the paid page. No-transcript. Um, I checked both. Yeah, did you pay? You know that one you get more. Well, that's just the one you get more like. Scientific study but nothing, yeah, nothing on the other one is really naked, so you have a free page which will end up which just teases for people to want to go and spend more money, isn't?
Speaker 3:your free page though.
Speaker 6:Yeah Well, tick tock is a free page, but so that's the thing on on my free account. And again, there's 40,000 subscribers on there. So, um, I, I, I, I don't put anything more than lingerie out there unless they're paying for something, and because otherwise I'd be selling myself short, because if everything was free out there, then it would be. I don't think I'd make any money.
Speaker 3:I am not suggesting that you do, because you've got the right formula and you were exactly right. Don't give it away, because people will pay to see it.
Speaker 6:And especially after your body, why not? Make a little bit of money right, yeah, and especially with the headlines. That's why I do those headlines, because all those people that did the free accounts suddenly they're seeing. I don't even know if I can, can I say the headline yeah? Of course it'll be like like oh god, so humiliating.
Speaker 3:You can cut this out, but it like it'll be like I can't look at you when you say it. Luann, I screwed up even your name.
Speaker 6:You just threw me off I can get off the camera, but it'll be like, um, like rubbing my two pussies together like they. They can't help but see what that is. What are like? What is that doing? What is that? Um? The weirder the language, the more they want to look, and the more curious to get them, the more so, like I said, it comes at a price.
Speaker 1:I'm trying to figure this out because I need some money. No, I'm just kidding, yeah, yeah but you have your free page and you like, do a lingerie, and you put that title on there, and then to see that you click on your paid page and then they got to pay. Okay, okay.
Speaker 6:Yeah, if they want to see like a daily nude video, they could go to my paid page and I do like a daily undressing like where I get totally naked. But on the free page I will put out a mass message message saying video of me with the two puss. They like to call it the two pussies.
Speaker 3:That's what look she is actually uncomfortable saying it I think it was uncomfortable as I am hearing it and it's okay because it's a difficult job, you know.
Speaker 6:You need to start selling your panties too, I know I know, because if anyone's going to be selling them and making them, it's the one that has a double.
Speaker 2:weird, it's a two for one deal yeah, two for one.
Speaker 6:It's like a sale.
Speaker 2:Is that what you're getting at? You get two pussies touched in for one. Yeah, yes, yes.
Speaker 6:I'm embarrassed, I know, but you know the listeners will like to know this stuff I think it's fascinating is fanning herself because well, no, the I have considered selling the underwear. I just have to make sure it's okay with only fans terms of service, because once you lose your account they don't give you a second chance and that'd be a lot to lose, so you couldn't Wow, okay.
Speaker 6:So like, what are some rules? Okay, so some rules on there. Are you like, if you even write the word, like, if you're telling a story to one of them and said like, oh, I, I met someone, or use the word meet and just like I'm like we're going to meet, they'll even they'll, they'll remove that message because you're not allowed to meet them. So even talking about meeting them To keep it from becoming a dating service, or or a escort page.
Speaker 6:Yeah, because it. They work essentially so that and the numbers, uh, one like the actual numbers, or even written, the numbers one through 17, you cannot write because that could insinuate that you're talking about a minor yeah so, um, so you don't talk about like, even, because sometimes I've been like oh yeah, 10 years ago I started modeling.
Speaker 6:Well, no, that sentence they immediately took off because and send it back to me and it makes sense, though, but it's just. Those are the phrases like you can't, absolutely cannot do, and uh, yeah, the meetups, the age thing, obviously, and uh, yeah, the meetups, the age thing, obviously, and uh, and giving out personal information?
Speaker 2:how do you, how do you deal with the freak shows that will send you messages and they're yeah, okay, that's.
Speaker 6:I, you know, I, exactly, and some of them have been some.
Speaker 3:Spit it out, leanne, don't be afraid.
Speaker 6:I know I'm trying. I know I try not to offend anyone either.
Speaker 3:I guess that's true. It's your business, right?
Speaker 6:Right. The thing is they usually just say the same thing. The thing is they usually just say the same thing A lot of times.
Speaker 3:on the free page I get a lot of people that are angry that they can't see it for free, mostly, but I mean, what were they expecting? However, describe a freak Well as I look, I'm just going to use tiktok as as an example. Yeah, like, there are plenty of women that say things like you know, um, like, there's one video that you did and somebody said I have two uteruses as well, but we all learned that it's uteri, uh, amanda yeah, I heard that on the on the.
Speaker 6:That's right when I was getting ready.
Speaker 3:So most of the women that comment on your tiktok. They seem to be supportive, they seem to be friendly, they seem to be curious. The men so happy. Old chad says are you the girl from honeydew with y'all? I'm not even sure what that means. What does that mean? I'm not so. Are you the girl with? Actually? Your response was I'm not sure. I'm just Leanne.
Speaker 6:That sounds a lot like you know. That sounds like me. That would have been a long time ago. I haven't responded to comments on there in a while.
Speaker 3:And then there's somebody that says you are amazing, which is fine. And then there's the guys that say you are a beautiful, lovely woman and thank you for sharing with everyone. Now, I know that doesn't sound exponentially bad, that's a great one. But there's somebody sitting in their basement salivating over your photos or your videos, in this case and they think that you're look, this is going to sound horrible. I'm saying it, not you, You're getting ready to defend it. So they're sitting there and these people think you're going to read this and say oh hey, Paul, I'll be over later. You know what I mean.
Speaker 6:Like I think they truly believe that oh, you know, I, I, uh, I I do gather that too. Um, and the thing is it's hard because, well, on my live streams I I talk about my real life and I say like I am single and I am looking, and and I do get a lot of guys that jump in and like, well, I'm here, like I'm here, pick me. Yeah, the thing is, I don't know them the way they know me, and that's where the weird, like where that's yeah, that's the.
Speaker 2:You could have people that are completely obsessed with you and think that you guys have some sort of connection because they've watched your videos every hour in the past seven years or something yeah, or interacted in the live stream and, like you know, I know their name.
Speaker 6:You know, hey, james, or hey, you know, but but really like I don't know about them this is a person.
Speaker 3:Just on tiktok. Okay, leanne, just on tiktok. They are commenting now on this particular video. As as long as they're not saying.
Speaker 6:I don't want to know the mean comments.
Speaker 4:No, no, no. The perverted ones.
Speaker 1:Well, I'm not even at the perverted ones. Please, I'll take the perverted for 500.
Speaker 6:Thank you, Alex.
Speaker 3:There are 7,082 comments on this one video. Okay, and this person in about the middle of all of the comments just says can I meet you in person now that has that, has rope and uh, chains in the basement.
Speaker 1:Yeah all, yeah all over it written all over it to me, so you want to kill me?
Speaker 6:I don't, I don't know, I don't know the goal there. I I it's. I feel like you have another one in the chamber.
Speaker 3:I'm ready for the next one this other person about a few down just says oh my god, with four g's at the end of omg, and then he says twice the woman, how?
Speaker 6:I mean like this person thinks he's clever saying that yeah that's what I in the live streams that's what I say, because they always say the same things. I'll say double barrel shotgun, double mint, twins, anything double in it. And you know I went on the dating sites. When I'm telling guys about this, I always say like I'll just save you, you don't need to go for this low-hanging fruit. You don't need to say double barrel shotgun, you don't need to say that I know. But um, the double barrel shotguns, like the, the main one, that's the one that said the most, that's the biggest, that's the biggest one. And the thing is in the live streams. So any of the stuff you haven't said is yucky in the live streams. The yucky that they do is they'll say, uh, wink when, when I can have permission, and they're essentially asking if they can come. I'm sorry, you can cut that out if you need to, but that's what they're uh implying. So do you ever wink? No?
Speaker 6:absolutely not, you just you just go ahead and if they want to go over there, I will wink all they want.
Speaker 1:I will wink all you want. Yeah, you pay that 1299 baby yeah.
Speaker 6:Yeah, exactly, I maybe will, but, um, I can't even talk about only fans on Tik TOK but I'll tell you this you can't.
Speaker 1:No is on tiktok but I'll tell you this you can't no, yeah, she said I'll get, I'll get busted from from tiktok.
Speaker 6:Well, they banned my life. They took me, put me in time, out on on tiktok for a week because I, I was talking about the difference between my free page I didn't say only fans, but I just said, like on my paid pay, on my paid one, I I get to talk to them and, you know, really spend more time and just saying that it cut me off so that is what led me to you, though, is how gracefully you handled people and I cut you off there, sorry, but no, no, no.
Speaker 3:The way you handled. Not only did you respond to me as soon as you read it, and but all while just everybody's flooding you with comments, some of them rude, some of them flattering, and you just kept rolling with it. Every time somebody said something, you were like no, we don't have to say that, and you know. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2:Like like chastising them like children.
Speaker 6:Yeah, but friendly. Well, friendly the thing is, and I I was, you know, on one of the live stream last week, one of the ones I did. I was talking about being on the podcast and I was saying, when you guys asked like if any of the comments got to me and and I was saying how, and my moderators jumped in and they're like, well, we keep you from seeing all the bad ones. And I forgot to say that, honestly, they do. I have, I have a great team of moderators that I don't really see a lot of the mean comments, and I meant to say that I should have said that in the last time.
Speaker 1:I was on here, so they delete them before you can see them.
Speaker 6:How do moderators?
Speaker 2:work. How does that work?
Speaker 6:You know, that's been a funny thing. You pay them, no, no. And I've sent gift baskets before because I couldn't understand why people would want to help me without pay. So many people will say can I mod for you? Can I mod? And I've never offered pay or anything. They just genuinely want to help, okay, and but that's mind-blowing to me. So when the ones that I have that are regular, I I like to send them something, but half the time they don't give me an address to send it to. They don't want anything and it's. It's amazing, like that is.
Speaker 6:That is just people so I just had to say that make sure that they know how much I appreciate them, and I do want to send the ones that won't give me. Like Carolyn, I wish you give your address to me so I can give you something. But anyway, next perverted comments. Tax me no more.
Speaker 3:I'm going to go ahead and give him credit for this. Tax me no more. Just went straight for it on. 7082 comments. He's in about the middle. Can I see? Can I see? Went straight for it on 7082 comments.
Speaker 6:He's in about the middle. Can I see? Can I see? Oh, yeah, that's the other thing. Yeah, they'll say can't yet prove it, and they'll say you're lying and say no, I'm not, you know go look at my and whenever they say that, I can't mention. Yeah, whenever they say like you're lying or something, I think, god, that would be something to make up. Something like that, right, and like, oh, that, just that's just wild, yeah.
Speaker 1:My fiance, my fiance, Caleb. Um, I was telling my sister about, about you, and saying how beautiful you were. He goes. There's no way. And I'm like Caleb, why would anybody fucking lie about that? Yeah, and that's that's he goes.
Speaker 3:Well, the thing pictures are you couldn't manipulate for it didn't happen and I'm like she probably hears that quite a bit. I said, well, she has an.
Speaker 4:OnlyFans, and she did a video and she more than one photo. Yeah, and he goes.
Speaker 1:Well, then get on her OnlyFans. And she did video and she had more than one photo. Yeah, and he goes. Well, then, get on our OnlyFans. I said, honey, you have to pay for that. And he goes, well, then pay for it.
Speaker 4:And I'm like well then you get on and you pay for it.
Speaker 6:I can't just send you it if you want. I don't want you guys to have to pay to see this or to show you know whatever, because it is fascinating, I get it, but, you know, as long as it doesn't get spread out. Although I have these, I pay for a system it's like $300 a month to take down leaked photos and videos.
Speaker 5:Oh really.
Speaker 6:Oh, that's out there, yeah, so yeah, I so they can't screenshot it or anything, they can screenshot it and they can put it up, but basically the system it automatically will send them a legal notice, the website that you know, if you don't take this down, and they send it all professional.
Speaker 3:So like a cease and desist kind of thing.
Speaker 6:That's yeah. It's a really cool system, but I haven't checked up on it recently. I hate Googling myself.
Speaker 3:Next, OK, sorry, well, well, let's do this. Let's do this because you get you get a ton of or a ton of um comments on everything you do, and I do kind of like sitting closer to you guys well go ahead and get on in here.
Speaker 3:Come on in, we got all cuddled up I am going to play a video it's a minute and 52 seconds long that you posted on Tik TOK and I think it's you you've drawn I mean I know it's you, but it's you've drawn two of the reproductive systems and you kind of talk about it. So I'm going to play that and then we'll talk about it on the other side. Is that okay? Sounds great, let's roll.
Speaker 5:Hi TikTok, my name's Leanne and I was born with two full vaginas and two full uteruses and two full cervixes. Condition is called uterus didelphys and today I'm going to show you the difference between what my setup looks like compared to a normal girl's setup. So here's my little. Oh, that's my old drawing, that's my bad drawing.
Speaker 5:Here is a normal vagina, uterus, fallopian tubes and cervix. It's hard to and here's my setup so you can see entry wise. See, we're both wearing shorts Entry wise. Okay, so here would be the vagina on a normal you know, lady, and here's what mine is like. My two vaginas start about this far inside and they split off into two and I have one side that's much smaller than the other, so they're labeled vagina one, vagina two, and each vagina goes up into its own cervix. So see the cervix one, cervix two, and uh see, here a normal vagina just has the one cervix and then the one cervix leads to the one uterus and then has fallopian tubes and x over there. So in mine, you know, we have the two vaginas right, left and right, and then we have two cervixes that go up to their own uterus and so they're kind of like bunny ears, and then the fallopian tubes and the X are still the same.
Speaker 5:So there you have it. That is the difference between myself versus a normal uterus and vagina and cervix. So anyway, feel free to ask questions and I'm happy to answer them.
Speaker 6:I sound so sweet on there.
Speaker 3:You sound? Sweet on every one of these, I'm going to be honest with you.
Speaker 1:You are sweet. I want to know why you have legs. This is my updated drawing, the one with two vaginas. Had that back up there. Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah it's.
Speaker 6:It's not much better, but it's hard to draw uterus in general, but really at the end of the day it's just the line, so you only have this one crossed off, just only have two fallopian tubes, not four I was born with the. Yeah, you would think that they would be like this is what I tried drawing it, how I thought they should have born with the. Yeah, you would think that they would be like this is how I tried drawing it, how I thought they should have looked, with the overlapping. It's a horrible drawing.
Speaker 3:I drew it on the spot that looks like a map of the globe yes, um, but yeah, I was born at the right of way.
Speaker 6:That is my instagram and, oh, my mother so you can be prepared is secret agent Lily Bell L-I-L-Y-B-E-L-L, and you can get familiar with the weirdness there. And so I was going to just say that I was born with two fallopian tubes, but because I got pregnant the one time with my last ex-husband, the baby grew there, so that was a topic pregnancy Out of the two healthy uteruses, baby grew there, so that was a ectopic pregnancy. Out of the two healthy uteruses, baby grew there, so they removed that one, so I only have one.
Speaker 3:Okay, oh, so they can go in and remove those.
Speaker 6:Yeah, during the ectopic pregnancy.
Speaker 4:And that was again was super early on.
Speaker 6:But again, ex-husband would have been horrible. That child would have been a demon For science, for science, it's always their side.
Speaker 2:I'm going to start using that anytime I say anything inappropriate For science.
Speaker 6:Hashtag for science.
Speaker 1:Yes, secret agent, can you spell Lily again?
Speaker 6:Yes, i-l-y, l-i-l-y, b-e-l-l. Lily Bell. Yes, I l y l I l y b e l l. Or or instagram, uh, at lilybelladventures, oh, instagram is both of them. She has two pages, so what you'll see, uh stuff what led you to what happened?
Speaker 1:Something fell on my face.
Speaker 3:What led you to get into doing that, like the first time you made a decision to share your story. We kind of we kind of talked about that last week. But let's talk about the courage to go from you know, hey, I have this, to hey, I'm gonna show you. Can we talk about? That a little bit how'd you, how'd you get to that decision?
Speaker 6:so that's the thing. Up until the last year I didn't. That's the thing a lot of girls do on OnlyFans and letting you guys in on all the secrets I appreciate.
Speaker 3:I'm all here for it.
Speaker 2:Me too.
Speaker 6:Now they're going to cut us off.
Speaker 6:You need to and sign up under my code. So basically, girls on there, they will make headlines on there, you know, know, to sell to people from their free page saying like having sex with a dildo and doing all this stuff. And I've bought some of these videos these girls have sold because I I've known that they would never do that. I've known this for science and for science, exactly, exactly, research, all that. So I buy the video. I spent like $50 buying this video Cause she's like my first boy girl and I was like no way, Such they, they make up headlines and they don't.
Speaker 6:And these guys are out of money. These guys are out of money. And I asked the one girl and I I said like don't you ever feel bad like doing that to them. She goes no, for every subscriber I lose, there's a new one to come replace them. And the thing is this it's hard for me, this industry, it's. It's very hard because I, I don't, I don't think that way. But here the thing is, I I went a little bit with this theory for a while where I would be like you know, showing my, my here we are with the swim for the first time.
Speaker 6:Yeah, but it's like I would. It wouldn't be really up close, it would just be like showing like my leg spread, which, you know, from certain view it doesn't really show much. They'd have to zoom in so closely and I still feel like a jerk. But some of them were happy with the footage. But only in the last year did I finally decide to show them actually what it looks like and I fear that I screwed some of them over too many times. I feel guilty about it, like honestly it's a weird thing to feel guilty about I can tell that you feel bad.
Speaker 3:What do you feel bad about that? They can't see it.
Speaker 6:I feel bad that I sold videos implying that they could Really At the beginning, and now that I'm showing it, I'm getting less purchases because I've screwed them over and I've I've lost their trust. And you know, I I went with their theory cause it was the money and it was like it was so easy and I didn't have to show anything. And the girls that show the lease on there make the most because the guys on there yeah, they're waiting for the girl to finally reveal.
Speaker 2:And each time she builds, yeah, so that can only go so far, like eventually you have to yeah, put out or shut up that's why I bought the videos, because I was like, well, okay, I know, she, just she.
Speaker 6:She had a video for the first time, this girl. She only showed bikini and she sold her video of just showing her nipples. The first time $50 for the video. But she's progressively gotten into more things. Is this on top of the monthly fee. Now, these girls have free accounts, okay, and also they have companies running them.
Speaker 3:And then they sell a particular video. Is that right? They sell a particular video and, uh, you know, you may as well just label this video outing only fan secrets, because, uh, you know they do those videos where, like the magic tricks, they bring them on and they show the magic tricks. This is kind of the same thing.
Speaker 6:I'm revealing the things that, uh, most girls don't want you to know. But here's the thing Like I feel bad for these guys because they think they're talking to the real girl. That's why I'm trying to send people to my paid page, because I'm actually doing voice responses or video responses, so they know they're talking to me, but at that, like I can handle them out on there. But on the free page that's more where I'm spanning. I have it set to. They have to tip if they want to talk to me. Just there's too many people. I'm not hiring a person. The other girls have chatters, they have people that poses them. Yeah, and these girls they'll be sexting with the guys?
Speaker 3:Yeah, I would be so pissed if I'm, yeah, and if I'm sexting with you and I'm and I'm texting you and I find out it may be a man, it might be another dude, I would be so sometimes yeah oh my god often is on these free pages often.
Speaker 6:Um, yeah, we've just blown some people's minds yeah, I uh, I was offered to work with this company that the my one of, one of my girlfriends who was in the top percentage she worked with and she was so excited she got to work with them because they worked with the celebrities and and I remember I got to a point that she said they kind of they want, they're interested in working with you and I I declined because I I knew I can't do that. I can't, I can't do that to people. People.
Speaker 2:There's a a job where you're just sexting random people all day, posing as other people Damn.
Speaker 5:I need that job and yeah, yeah.
Speaker 6:And do they make decent money. They're called fatters.
Speaker 2:No, it's probably a stay-at-home position though that you can do, they're from other countries.
Speaker 6:Oh, so they get paid horrible like $3, $4 an hour. I'm not really outing the industry, but it's horrible.
Speaker 2:It's you can see like on these sites, yeah, I'm curious how nobody catches on because they talk awful. Well, yeah, you can typically tell when you are Type B, especially through text, if you are texting with someone whose first language is not English, because it's a hard language to learn, so you can tell when it's off. Yeah, you can typically read that. So I wonder if there's like preset? There's probably just preset scripts that have been typed out ahead of time yeah, by the actual poster.
Speaker 6:That's exactly how it works. I mean, um, what they do is they'll send out a mass message to all their followers where it'll be like hey, hey, babe, what are you up to? So it sounds very personalized to like this. You know, this guy would be like oh my god, she's talking to me, when really they sent this message out to everybody. Effort, that's a subscriber yeah and they're just hoping to reel someone in. It's be like you want to see some naked photos and then they'll put a paywall today.
Speaker 2:Do you want to see some photos?
Speaker 6:do you want to talk, horny, yeah yeah, and men love to get their dicks rated. By the way, that's a big thing on there.
Speaker 3:What they love it. Let me tell you something I would never do.
Speaker 6:That's like one of the most popular things, what I really want to get into the line of work where you're mean to men.
Speaker 2:There are men out there that will pay women to be mean to them and I say sign me up. I'm real good at being mean.
Speaker 6:Yeah, you should do that you know you should sign up under my code. I'll push traffic your way. You can be mean to him, humiliate him. It'll be great.
Speaker 1:I fucking love this idea.
Speaker 3:I think you guys should do it If you're just going to make fun of dudes and they show you their tiny wieners. I'm all in.
Speaker 2:For you to be mean to them they want to know the face that's being mean.
Speaker 6:Yeah, and you know you can even go on anonymously. A lot of girls make a lot of money on there. Even just you know they'll wear a mask or something and men are into it. I have a guy that's really obsessed with the idea of me sitting on him. He's very little he loves talking about me sitting on him. He's very little he loves talking about me sitting on his lap.
Speaker 2:That's what I was talking about earlier when I said getting into freaks. There are people that are into weird, weird stuff.
Speaker 1:Amanda, I think this could really work. I'll be your manager. Let's make a lot of money. I think you could do it too. You're pretty mean yourself over there, I'm not fucking mean.
Speaker 6:Just that answer says that you're pretty mean yourself. I'm not fucking mean.
Speaker 3:Yeah, just that answer says that you could be the chatter. I mean.
Speaker 6:Whatever you guys work it out, just a quick google search it would give me five percent of your earnings if you signed up for my code. If we ever do?
Speaker 3:we will. We could talk about this, so I got you. This is what I found. Payment for an only fans chatter vary based on factors such as speed of traffic, how often the account gains subscribers and the agency or model you work for. The offered rate can range from, like you said, $1 to $3 per hour, with the possibility of earning commission on top of base pay. The commissions you get 2% for every sale. You make 2% commission for every paid or renewed subscription. What's 2% of $15? Nothing. 30 cents, Nothing, 30 cents. So wow and OnlyFans chatter, multitasking, sales, strong communication skills, comfort with sexual content and dirty talk a natural, flirty and personable demeanor. You're out.
Speaker 1:No, because she's going on the side of getting the people.
Speaker 2:I'll be on the one where I want you to be mean to me. I want you to hurt my feelings. Got it.
Speaker 6:Men will pay for you to just dominate them. Tell them when to eat dinner, tell them when to drink water. There's a niche for everything.
Speaker 3:Men are weird. Why do you think they do it? Why?
Speaker 6:do you think they do that? Because I think they beat off so much to porn that they just got to go to the next weirdest thing because it doesn't do it for them anymore. Mommy issues.
Speaker 2:I was just got to go the next weirdest thing, because it doesn't do it for him anymore mommy issues, can you?
Speaker 3:ready with that answer you were dialed in, so do you ever? Can you see them? Is it a two-way camera?
Speaker 6:uh, sometimes they'll send their photos to me. I had one guy pay me uh two hundred dollars to watch a movie with them. Shut the fuck up.
Speaker 4:yeah, I, yeah, I just, um, we watched the Goonies, Wait did so.
Speaker 1:you were at your house where you guys FaceTiming the whole time.
Speaker 6:No, so I had the camera set on me and, uh, he was just typing and I was just watching the movie with him and I it was really I didn't know what to do. I mean, he was like, oh, this is one of my favorite parts. And then it was like we had like a little fake dinner and, um, it's like it was a.
Speaker 2:It was a date.
Speaker 6:It was 200 for a virtual date yeah, and it's, it was awkward because I didn't know, like, and he still didn't get to first base. I know, I know, but but you have to think. So here's the thing, and I I can't judge them too much because you have to think. Some of these guys, I think what if they're paraplegics? What if they don't have a chance and this is as close as they'll get to a female bonding experience? And I think they like me for it, because I'm gentle with them, because you are, so they feel real.
Speaker 6:You are so sweet, you are you guys are so it's so easy to talk to.
Speaker 2:I'm not. We're not sweet, no, robin.
Speaker 6:You guys have been really easy to talk to for me.
Speaker 3:I really appreciate it Just hearing that like. I did not expect today to go this way.
Speaker 6:I'm not kidding, I know it's fascinating, right.
Speaker 1:Wow, but I could use that money.
Speaker 2:Well, I mean yeah well, I mean yeah, and I don't think she's too far off of. I don't think she's bullshitting on the numbers. No, I know, that is that's what I don't like. So how many times do you get requests for I want you to take a picture, do it? Or do you take requests like that, like I want you to do a picture like this, wearing this, or and send them kind of personally and have people pay for them?
Speaker 6:so a custom. I gotta look at my. I gotta look at my page. I have my menu set on there, so they, I think the custom started. Well, here's the thing I did. I did one live stream and the guy paid 100 for every 30 minutes we were on together. Shut, shut, the fuck up For him to beat off. Well, the thing is, it took him a long time and I was able to talk him into another. Honestly, it may have been more than that, but either way.
Speaker 3:He was a great customer and you're watching this happen, right.
Speaker 6:He's a police officer.
Speaker 1:Sorry, I don't know how I'm supposed to say that. It's just crazy. You're watching you, so you guys are faced, you're, you're, it's just facetime you and him yeah, we did that through an app called tell it.
Speaker 6:I don't think he'd ever watch this, but he's one of my favorites, though, and he's very handsome I bet he is that's. That's the type you kind of love, because it's it's more fun.
Speaker 2:Hold on, hold on, hold on I have so many questions so these little tiny my mind is blown.
Speaker 3:Because here's the thing. I wanted to be a police officer. First of all because I thought being a police officer would be very cool and I thought at the time you can get the ladies when you being a police officer would be very cool, and I thought at the time you can get the ladies when you're a police officer Also very cool. And now you've just said that this guy is handsome. So if he's handsome, I mean I can tell by looking at you that you think he's pretty handsome.
Speaker 6:Oh yeah, is he single? I have him in there as like no, I'm not, not gonna say, because he knows what I have under there okay, wait, is he single I don't know, I don't know, hold on if he's, if he's good looking and he has this.
Speaker 3:Why is he doing only fans and not just getting it off the side of the road or a club or a ball.
Speaker 2:I think some people like the chase and not being able to obtain it Like once you actually put your hands on it it's like meh Boring. But if I can live in the fantasy and imagine what it would be like, it'll be so much better than what the reality would be and I'll just stick with the fantasy version you know that and you know even my, my ex.
Speaker 6:He was a very handsome guy and he was on some of uh, fans leave is another site that is just like only fans um, and it blew my mind that he was on there because he was so darn handsome and it's something about getting a personal look into these girls lives that other people don't get to see. It's not on porn sites. It's filmed with our phones.
Speaker 6:It's our personal they're in your house, they're seeing you in intimate moment not intimate sex, but intimate, yeah, personally moments and and something about them taking, because I think I think, even though I don't see myself this way, I think they might see it like like a porn star is like a celebrity, and so the idea that they can take this person's time and and they're just using this time for me and it's, it's worth, uh, whatever price they're paying in the moment to have this girl, you know, show herself to me while I beat off is it always one-on-one or do you have multiple customers working at once?
Speaker 4:uh, if you don't want to answer that don't, but wait, what do you mean?
Speaker 3:well, like if you're chatting with this police officer, is it possible you're chatting with you know somebody else at the same time and charging them?
Speaker 6:both, not when he's hiring me for a one-on-one.
Speaker 3:Okay, so there is a one-on-one live and this is how I prove to my wife I'm not only fan on onlyans, because I have no idea how any of this works.
Speaker 1:Yeah, he's pretending.
Speaker 3:Yeah, I'm going to ask a bunch of questions, so I stay out of trouble.
Speaker 6:But no, yeah, they, yeah, it makes sense that they it's, yeah, it's all one-on-one. And then sometimes I'll do a live stream on OnlyFans, and that's when Multiple people canone.
Speaker 3:And then sometimes I'll do a live stream on only fans and that's when multiple people can pay, and how many people are watching one of those live streams?
Speaker 6:If I put a paywall behind it. This is so sad and the thing is that's how I fall in quite a bit in the only fans world. I'm not making neuro as what I was, but if I put a paywall of like $10 on my live stream and being like guaranteed nudity, maybe five will show up.
Speaker 3:Really.
Speaker 2:Which is God I would think so many more still, but I think you made 50 bucks for like just sitting in there and right, that's the thing.
Speaker 6:Right. Sometimes it'll be like live streaming a shower. I'm going to shower anyway, so yeah, $50. Like that's, I should do that more. Why am I not doing that, you know?
Speaker 2:what I mean really. You could do like just doing your makeup or whatever, and like in your bra yeah.
Speaker 1:Yeah, get ready with me.
Speaker 6:So here's how you play it is you're supposed to, because that's what the girls taught me is like, because I was taught by the top, top girls in the. You know the ones that are making the big money, and they, they said, the way you do it is you start clothes, you allow everyone to come in for free, so you get real big build up and then they start tipping for like oh, flash me. So you do like a flash for 20, and then they'll tip for like okay, guys, we got to get to a 200 gold flash for $20. And then they'll tip for like okay, guys, we got to get to a $200 goal to get my shirt off. And then they'll get that goal to get your shirt off. And then it's like okay, if you want the bra off, it's another hundred. So they all get to, they tip these goals. I don't understand, I don't know why.
Speaker 2:That's failing, because I well if, because if you have, if you have 20 guys in there, they each throw in 10 bucks.
Speaker 6:They're gonna get to 200 real easy and they all get to see something for 10 instead of 200 by themselves for a while I had a whale and that is something that is uh, a guy who pays a ton of money and he would go on these live streams drop like two grand a week and he had a schedule. He had five girls on his whole roster. He added these, like I wasn't going to add another girl, but I have you. And I would say, like I think he had live streaming. He'd be like, um, I have so-and-so this week. Can you move yours to this day, or otherwise I won't be able to give as much money. He loved giving money and the thing is he didn't he.
Speaker 6:He was a fan of dresses. He didn't. He didn't want to talk sexy. He liked the fact that all the guys in the room that he was getting so much attention in the room but outside of the room when we talk one-on-one, he didn't want to talk about anything about sex. He preferred me in dresses. And then he'd say we talked a lot about his like cat and his diarrhea. The cats with diarrhea, long paragraphs like they. They share their lives with you. Um, but he I guess I don't know if he maxed out his credit card or what, but he no longer on that site, um, which really kind of sucked because that was a good thing. Yeah, yeah, but it was like it kind of it was a lot of work keeping up with like fluffy and like scruffy and all the cats names.
Speaker 3:He had over 25 cats, jesus, and it was a weird you know, this guy sounds like a very cool functioning member of society Insane.
Speaker 2:Insane. He made a boatload of money and gave it to girls.
Speaker 3:He stole credit card numbers and used those to talk to girls on.
Speaker 6:Only fans, hey it's very odd that he was yeah, they got paid. Yeah, got paid and it's stuck you better as wife found out yeah, but man, you are blowing my mind.
Speaker 1:I know, I didn't think I like I am listening to you.
Speaker 3:I had a plan, I had an idea this discussion was going and you completely in a good way. Well, you guys ask the question, but you're so willing to answer what we love about you, because this is something I've not been exposed to. It's fascinating.
Speaker 2:It is so fascinating. I think it's a whole, I mean.
Speaker 3:Yes, it is, it's a whole world, it's a whole network.
Speaker 2:Well, okay, so we had a dear family member that we discovered, dear Uncle Richard. Dear Uncle Richard passed away and he didn't really have anybody else.
Speaker 3:That was close he was a horrible human being they found him after like two months and it was just one month. He died alone regardless.
Speaker 2:When we went to go clean out his house, we found he had some very freaky habits. He had an entire he had an entire room that we think he was just having sex parties in and there was a whole bunch of filming equipment set up. But it was like old and it was in this house. That was not livable. It was gross and moldy, illegal.
Speaker 2:No I don't think so I don't think there was no we he had magazines and magazines and magazines of like meetups and looking for photo looking for photos looking for you never would have thought well, this isn't in today's age
Speaker 3:this was he just died, but the stuff she's talking about would have been like from the 80s.
Speaker 2:He had new ones.
Speaker 3:Wow.
Speaker 2:Still of looking for a third. Looking for, and he was taking pictures of himself.
Speaker 4:Oh, my God.
Speaker 3:Like it was a whole thing you wouldn't have to.
Speaker 2:He had a filing cabinet full of naked photos of his junk.
Speaker 4:Yes.
Speaker 6:Of just his junk. Oh, oh, my God.
Speaker 1:Way ahead of his time.
Speaker 3:This dude. Somehow he got every gene. The rest of us Broans missed because I don't know he had a wiener with an elbow in it.
Speaker 4:I don't know how that works.
Speaker 6:I don't know how this works, but you're saying this was not a good person. I mean, we're allowed to say that? Uh, yes, this was a weird moment. Uh, for every, for whoever found that it was? It was denny and his older son, me and my second oldest son found it.
Speaker 3:We located all of his look. I knew he was kind of a deviant. I hadn't spoken to him for it probably. I mean I ran into him once in the last few years, but aside from that I was probably close to a child the last time I spoke to him and he was kind of an estranged, weird person. But I mean just stacks and stacks and stacks and stacks of porn. And he had this room with, like Amanda said, that had a futon in it not even a futon.
Speaker 2:It was pallets with just like a futon mattress over it but you could tell back in the day it was well done. Back in the day it was like what would have been a cool like shag party room, not shag like getting it cool like shag party room, not shag like getting it on like shag carpet. Weird green colored walls. There was a tiger blanket it was.
Speaker 2:There was a picture and there was a. It was upstairs and there was a set of stairs that led from the outside specifically to that room, so that people coming in didn't have to go through the rest of the house.
Speaker 3:And I talked to his girlfriend that he lived in that house with and she had no idea what was going on in there.
Speaker 6:That's the crazy thing. That's what scares me about dating because you never know. That's what.
Speaker 2:I'm saying about like that's what makes me think about all of the people on OnlyFans and the things that happen. Like you're just you know, you go to the grocery store and you look over at the nice young couple beside you and you never know what, and he's seen you naked and she has no idea you never know what people are doing.
Speaker 6:You know this kind of reminds me of. I hate to take up the time, you could cut this out if you need to, but I was talking to this guy on a dating site and he was. He was very handsome, very, very masculine, you know very just from a. He had a twang to his voice and he was in the military. I won't give too many details, but I'm just gonna say that on the phone he was very like Leanne, you are just my type, you are right up my alley and like I love this, like old-fashioned, you know he's he's really into this and and he's like I'm extremely masculine and and I I tend to ask well, I just like to know, like, uh, if the men I'm talking to are have ever been into other men, and I just wonder, just sometimes I do get a little insecure because I think I can't compete with a man, so I just want to know if they're a little into it. Just I interesting. Does that make sense?
Speaker 3:yes, so it's so it's interesting, you can't compete with women and men. Yeah, yeah, it's interesting.
Speaker 1:You can't compete with women and men.
Speaker 6:Yeah, yeah, it's already enough with the women. So first off, like so he kept saying like I'm so masculine. And then he, and then when I asked that question, he said oh God, no, like I could never. He goes like.
Speaker 6:You know, I think once in high school like me and a buddy like shared a girl but it was like nothing weird. And so he's like all about this and borderline, like against it, right, but the thing is he could only talk at certain times of the day. So I eventually was just like I cut him off and blocked him because I was like I think he's married or something by google his phone number. I google his phone number a week later just for like who is this guy? And I find all these posts on reddit of of men looking for other men and he's posting on these and he's he's saying it's a picture of him with his phone number under it and he's saying you are so sexy, I could be masculine or feminine for you. And this just blew my mind because this guy really sold me on the fact of this like so masculine. Like I am not into dudes, he was compensating.
Speaker 2:He is a closet.
Speaker 6:And that made me kind of sad for him though, too. But also the other part of me was like do I, should I tell him that his phone number is on line, like I just typed these numbers into my google and found all of your all of
Speaker 6:your stuff you might want to get a burner phone dude and for exactly for a second I thought maybe an ex, an angry ex, was used in his photos like I'm gonna get you back at you, but he was commenting equally on like, on attractive women and wanting to meet up with them on there, and it was. You know, it wasn't just one day, it was so many months apart and one of the one of the mind blowing one of the times Jams and I split while we were married.
Speaker 3:She went on a dating site we weren't married then and well before we we lived together and she went on a date with a person that, what would you say, purred at you made animal noises at me what like uh?
Speaker 1:why, oh, like you you are so sexy, no, isn't that freaky in person?
Speaker 3:sitting across a table from someone and you do that.
Speaker 6:He didn't growl on the phone no, you need a little growl.
Speaker 1:No, he didn't text. He didn't text to growl, he didn't email her nothing.
Speaker 4:No, my god, oh the audacity, oh, I know.
Speaker 1:And it's just freaky. And then was like do you want to come back to my place?
Speaker 3:no, no, it gives you cringy goosebumps she looked at him and said do you have cat food?
Speaker 6:god, that's so bad yeah it was awful but you have to think it had to have worked at some point for him.
Speaker 3:Like he probably thought it. Yeah, because he sat across from her and did it Like if you continue to do it.
Speaker 2:You clearly think that formula is working.
Speaker 1:With no like, unless it was his first try. But yeah, maybe I don't know, it just felt so natural to him.
Speaker 3:I have just called Amanda this and it just felt so natural to him. I have just called Amanda this and I can't wait, I'm going to, I'm giving, I'm going inside baseball here just a little bit. So I can't believe I'm going to share this. So I had told Amanda I'm like you know, sometimes I wonder if I'm the weird one, because there are. I know how I do things in the bedroom.
Speaker 2:Yeah, in the sack, that's.
Speaker 3:I know how are you going with, I know how I do things, but I don't know how other dudes do it and so I don't know if, like, I don't have. Of course you see porn and you see all of these different things, but you know that's not really real and some people know, it's not real, yeah so, but I'm just thinking.
Speaker 3:You know, am I? How do I know that I'm not boring? How do I know that you know what I'm saying? And how do I? How do I? How do I know that I'm not in the minority? That?
Speaker 2:you know it's doing the weird stuff and everybody else is the normal normal stuff.
Speaker 1:No, I have well it's.
Speaker 6:It's the same with kissing, though Cause I I think this too like how would I know if I'm a good kisser? What if I? How do I know what is normal? But uh, go on. If I'm a good kisser, what if I? How do I know what is normal? But go on, go on that I get it.
Speaker 1:That's really my question. No, I, how do you know?
Speaker 4:well, hmm, really tell you you have, yeah, oh, yeah, like what?
Speaker 1:like somebody that just stared, did not fucking blink, and it was like during the whole session. Well, I would just like turn my head because it was uncomfortable and it was just like I would have too yeah a little extreme, like you know the movement and it's like, and you're like, what the fuck?
Speaker 6:you know, and then the sweat dripping down their face.
Speaker 1:I've been there, I feel, yeah, um and the thing is, you probably didn't tell him he was weird though no, maybe you just never did it again, ever so I was like yeah, the block this is where leanne says no, I tried it again uh, yeah, I probably would have married the dude and you know what
Speaker 2:that's to be fair you did the same position for several years for eight years.
Speaker 1:Yeah, so it's probably just like they're into it and like if I would have made eye contact he probably thought it was. He was making eye contact and making you feel more seen yeah, or you know, if I would have made eye contact, maybe it would have been that much better listen, I did that in confidence.
Speaker 3:I didn't think you would talk about it.
Speaker 1:I have actually. You want to know another one, sure, yes, can't wait yes, we're interviewing you now wait a minute sex stories with jams.
Speaker 4:I love you. Yes, can't wait. We're interviewing you now If you see something that Amanda says, wait a minute.
Speaker 3:Jenny does that Sex stories with jams.
Speaker 1:I love hearing it. Somebody wanted to breathe in my mouth. Keep our mouths together and breathe and breathe.
Speaker 2:Oh, I can't. I couldn't do that. I don't like people being close to me and breathing.
Speaker 6:Like blowing into your mouth, just like they want their mouth.
Speaker 1:They're not even kissing you, they're just breathe in, and they, I would breathe out, they would breathe in, and oh, they would suck, oh oh, so they just literally wanted to breathe the air that you breathe pretty much yeah, you know that is very strange.
Speaker 6:Yeah, that I.
Speaker 3:I'm not even going to be able to sleep tonight I'm I am baffled right now the thing is, we have enough weird stories about in the bedroom.
Speaker 6:If you really talk with women, we got the weird. We sleep with weirdos. That's my point I don't know about we.
Speaker 3:I got the weird we sleep with weirdos that's my point.
Speaker 4:I don't know about we, I don't man, it's like I got the boring guy.
Speaker 1:No, that's what I'm saying. She's with me and, like I'm, trust me. The grass is not always green, it's not, it's.
Speaker 6:It's really not um that. I wish you would share more.
Speaker 1:Well, I think those are the only two really, really weird things that have ever happened. Other than me asking for the weird shit.
Speaker 6:What is the weird shit we're asking for?
Speaker 3:Yeah, James. What are you asking for?
Speaker 1:You know, just like the normal weird shit. I think that's what we're trying to establish.
Speaker 2:What are you asking for? No, just like the normal weird shit. I think that's what we're trying to establish is what is normal weird?
Speaker 1:Choke me. Don't let me breathe a little bit.
Speaker 6:That is something a lot of guys want to try. I'm not so. The thing is I haven't had a man go down on me in eight years.
Speaker 3:Was it the same guy that you looked at the?
Speaker 6:wall. Well, I was married to the one guy for five years 30 to 35, same guy. So I guess we're going on nine years without anything. Why they always talk a big game. They always talk a big game. And then whenever I meet these people, it's just straight Men have forgotten how to do foreplay, I guess.
Speaker 1:So I'll tell you, I hated that. I used to hate. I thought I did too. I used to think it yeah, I used to think it Until I had some good times.
Speaker 3:Yeah, If any parents are listening to this show please accept my apologies now.
Speaker 6:You should put a warning on this. We always have a trigger warning.
Speaker 2:This is an extra warning.
Speaker 3:It's a good thing Brandon isn't here tonight. He would be mortified.
Speaker 1:But you know, people are fascinating. Do you think it's because, because of the two vaginas thing?
Speaker 4:well.
Speaker 6:I. The thing is they make it, they always make it, and that's the thing. I think that they just want to sleep with me. They always talk a big game about how they want to and because, whatever I would say like it's been this many years and they'll be like, oh, how does that happen to someone and I'll fix that, but they have not fixed it. Great, I have not gone on that many dates. I mean like well, why do you not?
Speaker 3:hey, why are you amanda? Where did you?
Speaker 1:go. That was the left, um, she's like, and they have not, and they have not. Yeah, why? Why are you bullshit, leanne? Why do?
Speaker 6:you. Well, it is right listen look, there's so little out there well maybe that's where I'm headed.
Speaker 3:You are beautiful. You should like. I'm surprised that you have to. What?
Speaker 2:pools. Are you dipping in that you can't find yourself? Are you spending?
Speaker 3:your time that you don't find men that are decent just normal, that's so.
Speaker 6:this is the new thing, and my mom was talking about this study the other day about how, like, the top five percent of, uh, what women are the top? You know guys that are, like, I guess, handsome and over a certain height Granted, I don't care about height and all that and make over a certain amount of money, and again, I don't care about that, but I do like to be attracted to them. But the study is that you know all of that 5%. They're dating all of the girls on these sites the women were. They have so many options because they don't mind going into, they could have any type because they are the. There are very few that are in that category.
Speaker 2:You have this percentage and then the rest of them are down here. Like there's no in between, there's no like, yeah, you're in the middle, I can deal with middle. There's either. Your fantastic on dating sites that are not taken there's either, like the guys that were married and just got divorced and they'll be off the market again soon, and then the rest of them are going to beat off our mother's basement forever.
Speaker 6:While watching Leanne's videos While are going to beat off our mother's basement forever.
Speaker 1:While watching Leanne's videos While watching hopefully, hopefully this interview is better than the first one, Leanne.
Speaker 6:It just keeps getting better.
Speaker 2:I know Inside baseball.
Speaker 1:Yeah, what does that mean?
Speaker 3:Inside baseball is a figure of speech that says Like inside knowledge, inside knowledge, getting to see behind the scenes, behind the curtain, oh, I have not. I had not heard that before here's the good news about this, leanne. Yes, we have successfully talked long enough that now there has to be a third interview I have to, because we didn't get to any of the content that didn't talk about
Speaker 6:I don't even share enough of it like um. So you know the science I did before the yeah, so we didn't talk about that.
Speaker 1:The science, she, she did for science, which was really very little I mean
Speaker 2:so, but you do have a story. We can do one your story before we leave quick.
Speaker 6:I mean it's because I wasn't sure if we'd have any. I do. I wanted to make sure I had something to talk about, and so this guy is talking to you. I did a science experiment. I was talking to a new guy on Tinder, or not Tinder, uh, match Cause I thought more serious than there.
Speaker 3:No, um, but anyway, I still can't believe that you have, like I, I questioned, like you have to be on there and then the people you're meeting are like freaks or they don't.
Speaker 6:They don't respond to half the messages. I put them out there and at the well, the thing is I'm pretty aggressive with my messages. I I kind of know what they'll be for me. Only fans, no, I my opening where I usually say hey nerd, and then if they respond back like nerd then I know they're not for me. But if they go with it and they're fun then. Then I'm all right, you know. But half the time they're like I'm not a nerd and that's that's just yeah.
Speaker 3:If you're too cool, I don't give a shit about you.
Speaker 6:Yeah, next, but anyway. So before the live stream I've well, I've kind of been talking to this guy. We've just mostly been bantering, but he's pretty funny and right before the live stream I talked to him on the phone for the first time and I was like I gotta tell you something. I was like and this is just your opportunity, you can jump out. The thing is, I really jumbled this. I delivered it in the worst way. I said okay, so technically I have two vaginas and I'm going on a podcast to talk about it, although maybe he'll watch this, maybe he will talk to me again. But he was very calm and the amount of silence on the other end really made me nervous, so I kept talking. She's like feel the silence, yeah.
Speaker 1:I do that.
Speaker 6:Yeah, so so you can totally. You don't have to talk to me again, Like I totally get it. If this isn't for you, um, sit on it. If after the, after the the podcast, we can talk, I'll sit on you.
Speaker 1:I'll sit on you.
Speaker 6:Essentially, uh, essentially, uh, he. He texted me a little after I don't know. I feel like I've lost him, though it the whole thing seemed. I don't, maybe, maybe it'll be different.
Speaker 2:What did he text? I don't know why someone would run away. I have two vaginas. I just wanted to let you know. Didn't they already listen to a man?
Speaker 1:they can barely handle one, you know.
Speaker 2:I think that might be it.
Speaker 1:It might be intimidating.
Speaker 4:He does want to talk?
Speaker 6:Oh, did he text you breaking news. Yeah, did your podcast go well? Did the child headset get the job done? So he's interested there. It is there, so I'll continue that and we'll see. Gotta keep us updated for sure.
Speaker 1:Make sure he's not a murderer and all that yeah, yeah, you do have to take to make to ensure you're safe so what did he say to it when you told him?
Speaker 6:so he said okay, he said that's a, that's something to take in. He's like I've certainly never heard that before and then, which I kind of like. I really do like a nerdy brain, so I like something that's give me something different, not this usual, the usual answer is Not the macho guy that thinks he's too cool.
Speaker 6:Look at me the jam Nobody else has ever thought of this joke, yes, or the. I think that's really empowering. Well, I mean, maybe that's okay, but but he, he thought about it and that I kind of do give credit for that. Granted by next week or whatever I may not have talked to him again, who knows but he said I said, but hold on, it gets worse. I couldn't stop talking because there's so much. So I just kept going and I was like but there's another red flag. I was like, also, I show this to the world. I didn't. I don't know if I said for science, I might have. And he, he said okay.
Speaker 6:And I said I just want to give you a chance to like bail, if you need to, you can think about it. Bail, if you need to, you can think about it. I'm gonna go on the podcast. And I was like it's just, I didn't want to have it. So, like, if you aren't comfortable with it. And uh, he said all right, well, uh, I will. It was what it didn't land. It did. The conversation didn't really land on anything. And I was like it's all right if you don't, if you don't text back, all right, well, uh, see you later. I made it so awkward.
Speaker 3:I'm gonna call this person after and I'm gonna see if this is what I love about you, leanne, is you are, you're so unassuming and I will tell you this we got more, we got deeper, leanne, today than we.
Speaker 6:Yeah, I feel so much more comfortable. You, you are acting.
Speaker 3:You're acting like a friend on the show right now.
Speaker 6:You guys feel like my friends?
Speaker 3:We are your friends Seriously.
Speaker 6:I just got a weird career.
Speaker 3:I'm going to do something unprecedented.
Speaker 1:Okay.
Speaker 3:You're going to ask to see the two vaginas. That's right. Stand up, let's have a look to see the two vaginas. That's right. Stand up, let's, let's have a look. No, I, I, with the lady's permission. Now everybody is thinking I'm going to ask I would like to do a third interview absolutely, oh yeah absolutely yeah, because you guys had like planned content and we just went on.
Speaker 2:You know, the amanda and jams version.
Speaker 6:It's amazing it's so interesting and I love talking about it because I don't get to talk about it and I enjoy look, I enjoyed last week and this one here, like I could let this you might want to tell your son not to watch it.
Speaker 2:Oh no, we won't warn him, no, no no, we'll let him watch it. He gets to have bolognese and.
Speaker 3:I, but I, I. I have enjoyed this one even more than last week because we finally, not that we struggled to get to know you before, but we got real Leanne, like comfortable.
Speaker 6:You got the uh, you got the, the Leanne that had autopilot Cause I have to do my autopilot speeches but I don't get to talk about this stuff. People especially that get it or understand the weirdness of it, or you know it's just so.
Speaker 3:I want more of this so one day I'll be a regular.
Speaker 6:I'll just be a little box.
Speaker 3:What do they? Say Fuck around and find out. You'll be a regular. I'll just be a little box on you. What do they say? Fuck around and find out.
Speaker 4:You'll be on the show every week if you're not careful.
Speaker 3:So can we go ahead on the show and book you for next week? Yeah, but mom is. Huh.
Speaker 6:Mom is Mom's next week.
Speaker 3:Could we move her to the week after?
Speaker 6:Mom's easy to move around.
Speaker 3:Mom's easy. In general, nope.
Speaker 6:Mom, mom, you know you love those jokes and I know you'd be laughing.
Speaker 3:I think I'm going to get along with you anymore.
Speaker 6:Yes, she's very committed to my dad.
Speaker 3:That's good. You know what we should do. Let's do something totally off the wall. Yes, leanne, would you like to be a part of relationship advice with hams and jams?
Speaker 5:you have to ask them first you guys would say that anyway no, that's exciting.
Speaker 6:I enjoy doing this. This has been really good for me Whenever you guys ever you guys have such a great thing going Well thank you for that. I love the idea of joining once in a while. I don't want to take anything away from you guys, but you guys have. You're so interesting to how she was so funny.
Speaker 1:Yeah, no, you're not taking anything from us right now.
Speaker 3:You are you are the one that does only fan like. You're so out there in media and the fact that you're giving us time.
Speaker 4:It's amazing to us yeah.
Speaker 3:And for you to tell our story or to listen, let us, I got nothing going on.
Speaker 6:Well, you that's the.
Speaker 3:That's the point. You're gorgeous and you're talking to millions of people and you don't even know it. I don't think I know. It's crazy.
Speaker 6:Yeah, it's man, it isn't it's, but the thing is I don't know. Well, it's funny because, like the exes, a lot of ex-boyfriends would say they wouldn't they, I don't. They'd say I don't want to taint you, they wouldn't want to me to know how if I was good at something, because then I might change and I might get an ego. But it's not happening.
Speaker 3:There's no ego you, you are, so there's no ego I I would love to, just I.
Speaker 6:I would love to come on here whenever you guys want me here, yeah I'm here.
Speaker 3:Well, you're on for next week, that's already I love it. I love it tell mom we're gonna have her on the week after following me but we still love mom and we're still excited about mom. We're so excited about your story. Yeah, I cannot wait.
Speaker 6:We're not moving mom because because she's not interesting, because really we just want to give her a little time because she's a little nervous, and that's what's going to be best for everyone. So, mom, we're doing this for you, that's right. Yeah, who's the victim?
Speaker 3:yeah, but here is what we're doing this for you, that's right.
Speaker 1:Yeah, who's the victim?
Speaker 3:Yeah, but here is what we're doing now. So we are going to bring Leanne with us on this week's Ams and Jams. So here's the intro. Let's do it.
Speaker 2:It's the most wonderful time of this goddamn podcast, did you?
Speaker 1:really think this was going to be a feel good segment, are you?
Speaker 2:insane like me. Welcome to Relationship Advice with Ams and Jams. I see rain, rain, oh rain. Well, you asked for our advice.
Speaker 3:We just hope you're ready for brutal honesty, and brutal honesty it shall be, dear Ams and Jams and Leanne. Hey guys, I need some guidance. I've been in a relationship for six months with an amazing woman, long distance. Despite the distance, we've flown back and forth a total of 13 times in five months, so it's almost so. It almost doesn't feel long distance. We both live in Japan, but on opposite ends.
Speaker 3:I'm a Westerner, she's Japanese, she's very social, has lots of guy friends, admitted she likes attention and wants a strong, uncontrolling man. I have a couple of women friends who respect having a life outside of our relationship. I have a couple of women friends and respect having a life outside of our relationship with his girl. We do have different lifestyles, however. I am deep into my career and don't drink. She goes out late night with friends nearly every other night. She's moving to me at the end of August so we've discussed my concerns with our lifestyles being different. She seems open to calming it down when she moves in. We have a beautiful relationship up to this point. We are kind to each other, have amazing chemistry and we've never had an argument.
Speaker 3:Something came to light today. That floored me. She does not hide me on her Instagram account and regularly posts our adventures. Last night I saw that a different account with her photo was tagged in one of her stories. I searched for that account but it didn't seem to exist.
Speaker 3:I asked my friend at work if I could use her phone to look it up. And there it is. She had me blocked on that account with 700 people following and her following 1,000. So it's a major account. In contrast to the account she shared with me, she still shared photos from our adventures on that one, minus any pictures of me. I'm nowhere on that account. Even her active story on there for today is everything but me from this past weekend together. When I called her today she said she is sorry and she doesn't know why she blocked me. Yes, she does. She said that that was her original account and she wanted to keep it for friends and business people.
Speaker 2:That's her, just in case account.
Speaker 3:Didn't want to share her boyfriend pics. But it's such sharp contrast to her other account where even the top of her profile shows she's in a relationship. The other one, well, it's like a single girl account. There have been shady little things that have happened since we met that I swallowed because of my rose colored glasses and wanting to be a secure boyfriend. Because of my rose colored glasses and wanting to be a secure boyfriend, she just moved out of her apartment yesterday and will stay at her mom's until she moves here next month. So I'm like at this point of no return. I feel so hurt with her 700 followers. She went to her account settings, typed in my name and made the decision to block me as her boyfriend. It's shady AF. That's as fuck and I didn't know how to feel, but betrayed and sad Ams and jams, can you please give me your thoughts? Leanne, you get to lead off but I'm not ams and jams.
Speaker 6:To me it sounds like she's making money on this other account. I think she might be selling pictures. There's really no reason to be doing that, unless for male attention. But why would you go that length just tonight? I don't know, I've just seen it more often than not.
Speaker 2:Maybe back to our earlier statement.
Speaker 4:You have inside baseball, I think.
Speaker 2:I think that's her just in case account. So she has the boyfriend. But if things don't work out with the boyfriend, she's got all these other dudes in her DMs on that account. I'd say, hey, go ahead and log into that account for me and let me see it and see how she reacts.
Speaker 1:Yeah, because I'm guessing that's not going to go well. Yeah, no.
Speaker 2:And she's did it say earlier on that she. I like a secure man that doesn't question things or something.
Speaker 1:Well now we know why yeah.
Speaker 2:That's saying she likes to be able to do what she wants and not be questioned. She sounds like somebody's ex that we know.
Speaker 6:She sounds like she's soon going to be another ex.
Speaker 3:That would be Brayden's ex-wife is what we're talking about there oh did she do that?
Speaker 2:Oh, she does all things, lots of things. Oh horrible, horrible.
Speaker 3:Yeah, we can tell you more about her. Of course, not what I do, no, what you do is classy what she does, she did it while married, while her husband didn't know.
Speaker 2:She also had a menu on Craigslist.
Speaker 6:Oh, my God.
Speaker 3:Yeah.
Speaker 6:That's. That is horrible. You're not supposed to hide this stuff. And that's the other thing. Like, even in the only fans world, I, every guy that I've ever like wanted to be with I tell them you can? I have nothing to hide on here If you want to see the messages like, that's how I think a normal and they never even asked to see it, but just knowing that they could, yeah, that was one question I was going to try and get to this week.
Speaker 3:Yeah, didn't make it.
Speaker 6:Yeah yeah, but you know, that's uh, that just um, and that's the thing you always call them on it, though, when it when, whenever an ex or no, well, and whatever a boyfriend or girlfriend, I guess, would say or no, don't, I've never had a girlfriend, I'm just doing that thing Now you're nervous again.
Speaker 6:Yeah, um, whatever I with my ex-husband when I would catch him in something, he'd be like fine, look at my phone, and he'd like throw it. Well, of course I'm going to look through it Like they. They think that you're not going to of messages. If you have to Expecting. They'll be like no, no.
Speaker 3:Yeah, no, I trust you.
Speaker 6:You take that phone and look through it, absolutely 100%.
Speaker 3:What's our advice for this young?
Speaker 1:man. It's not going to work, sir, because you are not secure and she doesn't want you asking questions, and you need to ask questions.
Speaker 2:Amanda I mean, I think, I think she's definitely been playing the field yeah that wasn't I didn't know you were blocked. I didn't mean to Nope, that's not how that works.
Speaker 4:That's not how that works at all. That was on purpose 100%.
Speaker 2:She probably. The page that you see was created for you. The page that you see was created simply to make you feel at ease. Yeah, so your relationship is all based off of lies. There you go, yeah.
Speaker 6:Leanne, yeah, yeah, the lies that's. That in general is enough to just you, don't, if they're lying to you already.
Speaker 4:Yeah.
Speaker 6:I, they're just going to keep it going and it'll just get worse from here.
Speaker 4:I really feel for him though.
Speaker 6:I do feel for him, but although do we give her a chance and just look through the messages.
Speaker 3:Or he could find you on OnlyFans and pay you $12 a month and I'll treat him real good there you go, there you go.
Speaker 6:I'm on my way and pay you $12 a month. I'll treat them real good. There you go, there you go, I'll treat them real good. I'm on my way.
Speaker 3:Come on over. Yes, we're helping each other, leanne. Yeah.
Speaker 4:Dear Ams and.
Speaker 3:Jams Question number two and Leanne, I feel like I am being a bad mother for wishing this, but my kids are ages two and seven. Both are boys and they're getting into my nerves I have a husband.
Speaker 3:He takes care of the kids while I work, but every time that I work at home, he seems to just be looking at his phone all day or playing online games on it. He gets mad if I don't prepare meals. Sometimes, if my eyes hurt from doing my job, I will go to the kitchen to wash the dishes. We don't have a dishwasher. We are renting a small house now and I am working very hard so we could afford a home of our own with extra rooms. It's not that I hate my family, but I can't properly or I can't work properly if they don't help me. I can't concentrate when they are noisy. They keep bugging me while I'm working. Work properly. If they don't help me, I can't concentrate. When they are noisy, they keep bugging me while I'm working, and if they are bugging me, my husband's solution is giving them eight hours of screen time. Now the children have trouble self-regulating and expressing their feelings, and it adds to my load again.
Speaker 3:I'm starting to think. If I just stayed single, I'd be pretty well off. I paid my husband's loans during the first years of our marriage. Now he's debt free. I am not. I use my credit card to buy food and pay bills. All of this has me worried that I'm just in the wrong place. Ams and jams Am I wrong?
Speaker 2:In so many ways. What the hell is so? So you've got stay at home, like this is such a role reversal. You are essentially the husband that just bitches all the time but doesn't want to be the parent, except you're the wife, the mother. Your husband's a stay-at-home dad. If you don't like how he parents, have a discussion with him about parenting because, guess what, you're both parents. You share equal responsibility in those two heathens that you've created. If you don't want to be with your kids, do you think other people do Be a better parent?
Speaker 3:Oh, I think she's saying that the children are a product of him, the way he's parenting while she's working right.
Speaker 2:But she's also the parent Like. She has equal responsibility in that, whether she's working or not.
Speaker 3:Leanne, what are your thoughts?
Speaker 6:Yeah, she could get them off the. You know, she seems to be okay with having them on the eight-hour phone. Yeah, because they're not bothering her, yeah, so it's kind of not fair to blame him for all this. And it sucks because you already created the, the problem, fetal collaborations, I mean. So it's, it's a little, but I can't, I don't feel like I can speak on this, because I've never been a mother and I don't have I'm not good at that advice, you know oh, I don't know I. I disagree with Amanda, I'm sorry.
Speaker 2:I just do. I think she's just bitching about having to be a mom is what it sounds like. Did you not sign up for this when you?
Speaker 1:made the crotch goblins. But I guess she's like. I guess it would be like you sitting on your ass all day making the kids go like watch TV, or letting them watch TV and Denny coming home and then you make him cook dinner. You see what I'm saying.
Speaker 2:Like I think she works but she also talks about like working it from home and then the kids bother her yeah like I don't understand. And if she doesn't again, if she doesn't like how her husband parents no, she should. She should discuss with him. Like hey, I don't think, I don't think you're handling this correctly. You just left him with all the child rearing responsibilities and then said I don't like how you do it.
Speaker 1:But at the same time, you can't be a deadbeat dad either, just because you're stay-at-home.
Speaker 6:Just because you're a stay-at-home dad doesn't mean you get to play video games all day Except for today's men do that, they do, that's weird, but the thing is it sucks because you almost want more information on it, like I would want to know how their sex life is and that would help me different perspective and I fucking love it me too, but it makes sense though, because you know, uh, if you are actually?
Speaker 2:do you think she's a dominant and dominatrix?
Speaker 6:you know I certain men are into that, because if they work all the time, they want someone in control of them.
Speaker 2:So maybe how you, how you feel about that um, I plead the fifth, I'm staying out of this right now.
Speaker 6:Matter of fact, go ahead, leah sorry no, that's all I was gonna say is just, if I knew more about their sex life, then then it could be kind of more clear if this was a done deal or not.
Speaker 3:If you sent this email I don't know send us a follow-up email on on your sex life. Tell us your sex life. Yeah, are you?
Speaker 6:still attracted to him in that way, like it's true, you know whether it's whether it's, yeah, you know, valid point. Very good, we would like a follow-up and then we could then then you could really dissect their relationship then we'll really help you then we know if there's any help hope, because yeah, if that doesn't sound like there's hope right now no yeah.
Speaker 3:Yeah, dear Ams and Jams, I recently learned that my husband cheated on me. Worse, today's my birthday, and after midnight I started thinking about how my life has been Like. If I were to put everything I've been through in a balance, would it be a good or a bad life? I thought about my life, defining events, things that have traumatized me and moments where I've been happy. And since D-Day I think that's the day they found out was just a week ago I couldn't help but feel sad about the shitty hand I was given when I was born. It feels like I have to suffer, like nothing good can actually happen to me and like I have to struggle for all of my life. Then I got a phone call from my brother wishing me a happy birthday, but as we hung up I started sobbing, which woke up my husband. He hugged me and let me get everything out. I told him that I'm tired and I don't want to keep fighting. Destiny or fate or life or whatever it is that has decided my life has to be a struggle, and he held me close until I cried myself to sleep.
Speaker 3:I was so happy getting married, having my bachelorette party, having our reception For a month. I felt like a princess. I was blissful and finally felt like I'd found my happily ever after. I just couldn't believe how happy I was, and I was unbelievably grateful to have my husband by my side. D-day really came to wreck everything. I'm kind of wondering, if we go through with reconciliation, what's going to be the next shit show? How is life going to fuck me over next? I'm so sorry for such a sad email. I really wish I was enjoying my birthday instead of having this existential crisis, ams and jams. What do I do?
Speaker 2:well, first off, if it's after midnight, you shut the fuck up and you go to sleep. I have a saying no good thoughts after that. There is nothing good that happens after midnight like and that's something good that's really last night oh, that was with amanda's bad thoughts.
Speaker 2:Oh, not so bad then. But if you, there is something there's something so true about especially maybe it's more women than men, like with our hormones and chemicals and all this stuff. Like, after we get past a certain point in the night, we can feel sorry for ourselves and see only the bad in everything. And I could do that almost every single night and I have to tell the stupid little voices in my head hey, shut the fuck up, you're tired, go to sleep. I don't know Now. Now she got cheated on Like I understand that that's probably compiling how you're feeling, but they're reconciling.
Speaker 3:She's made the decision to reconcile. She's wondering.
Speaker 2:Well, she's wondering if it will be like she's feeling hopeless, very, very hopeless about everything. It sounds like and you're going through something bad which is going to have you in emotional turmoil. But don't let that. I always tell. I always tell the kids is it a bad five minutes or was it a bad day? And this is is it a bad day or is it a bad life? Kind of thing like don't, don't let one day, one moment in time, be what you hold on to versus you've had, you've had good somewhere yeah, or if you have it, make your own good like.
Speaker 2:Don't let that be what holds you down and yeah and what are your thoughts?
Speaker 6:also it's. It's important to know that. You know here's got to look at it this way Um, if you're at rock bottom right now, how you're feeling, uh, actually you're kind of lucky because life can only get better from now. So, the kind of the worst you feel in the moment, you have better things to look forward to, because you're going to feel so much better when things start to feel better. So just know that it's going to get better. It always has, even though it might not feel like it in the moment right now, that it's going to get better. It always has, even though it might not feel like it in the moment right now. It always has and it always will be it. Just, you will have a happy day again and it will. It will feel that much better.
Speaker 6:However, um, on the cheating thing, I don't know. On that, uh, I, I could never do. I'm too jealous for that. Uh, way too jealous. But if you've made the decision to try, the thing is you could either, uh, suffer like this the rest of your life with this man or, um, move on, move on, yeah, try again, move on. And because, yeah, either feel like this every night or or start over, and you can, it's possible I don't know, jams, what are your thoughts um leave his ass?
Speaker 1:I mean, I love the bluntness now she is every time she is blunt leave his ass and move on and make your days happy, because ain't no man worth it.
Speaker 3:And you go to sleep go to sleep, leave him and then get some rest, yeah it'll feel so much better.
Speaker 2:Why?
Speaker 1:are we so crazy? It will get better, but it's also gonna get bad again, because that's just fucking life yeah, it will go up and down in a lot of.
Speaker 6:We all go through, we've all had bad things happen and we all have our pity party sometimes in our head. I get it, so I can't blame that much. But you know you can start over. Every day since I left, my ex-husband has been better than the day before, so it's proof that it's possible.
Speaker 1:Yeah.
Speaker 6:It also is like horrible, but every day is better than a day that was with him.
Speaker 3:So I think somebody was getting ready to agree and then pulled it back.
Speaker 1:I don't know. All right so.
Speaker 3:Leanne, I'm going to give you a second. You are going to you have to think of something that happened this week that you love and something that you hate. Ok, it doesn't have to be even this last week, but it's just a little segment we do to close out the show. So here we go. It's time to talk about one thing I love. Amanda, we're starting with you. One thing you love, one thing you hate.
Speaker 2:I actually have a love this week. Who knew what? What is it? I love that Nacho can now climb the stairs and he wants to sleep with piper on the bottom boat, nacho is our little dog I'm pissed.
Speaker 1:Oh, I thought it was your child I don't know, no piper he.
Speaker 2:So he climbed up the stairs this week while I was trying to put the girls to sleep and he laid up on her bed and fell asleep next to her and I took him back downstairs and then, when I came back up from the basement where we were watching TV, I couldn't find him, and I found him up in their room, again curled up next to them.
Speaker 3:He just learned to go upstairs and he was so excited to get up there. He wanted to lay with the kids and sleep, which is cool.
Speaker 1:I just wanted a cuddly puppy and I gave it to them.
Speaker 3:Yeah, jamie's litter. Yeah, it was her dog, it was her puppy and all of all the dogs we got the only one that's sweet. And I think he's only sweet because he lives with me.
Speaker 2:No, I hate people that leave the trash can lid open. For the love of God, if it has a lid on it and it's the poop trash can from work, close it, just close it.
Speaker 4:I picked up. It rained a whole bunch this week.
Speaker 2:And there's someone who refuses to close. It Refuses every single time that there's a poopy diaper, and it only holds poopy diapers. It gets put in there and the trash can sits outside, so it it doesn't make the daycare smelly.
Speaker 4:and it rained and then I had to take the trash out and I had poop trash leaking all over my legs.
Speaker 3:Do you know what? Leanne never has Poop trash leaking on her leg. And she has offered to help you never have to do it again.
Speaker 6:Yes, she has. I used to be a caregiver, but yeah, I've dealt with the poopy, but no, I like that. Sorry, go on.
Speaker 1:I love little last minute day trips or whatever. I hate sunburns. I fucking loathe sunburns. I got a little bit of sun today too, so and I love leanne, I love you, lily, I love you yeah, yeah, you got you sold.
Speaker 6:My answer that was I was gonna say this has been my favorite part of my week. Oh, thank you, not to kiss you guys, but I, yeah, but it's been so much fun and I, I, I was worried that I going to have to cancel because of the worst thing of the week, which is the two periods coming.
Speaker 3:So you're all synced up, so that's good.
Speaker 6:The next two days are going to be hell but we're sorry, yeah, that's the easy's easy answers.
Speaker 3:But the good news is by the time we talk to you next week, they'll be gone. I have better answers.
Speaker 6:Oh yeah, They'll be gone. You'll be better my thing is I'll? Have better answers prepared.
Speaker 3:You will be completely. There will be no more nerves, because we've gotten rid of all the nerves.
Speaker 6:We've talked about it all.
Speaker 3:You are solid you are solid about a lot of secrets. I will tell you what do I love. I have said it before, I'm going to say it again I love this podcast. I love this conversation people is why I love this podcast? Because, leanne I, I have enjoyed the shit out of talking to you, but I would have never talked to you without this podcast.
Speaker 6:So, this, this is all amazing I hope not.
Speaker 3:You don't have all my fans and whatnot uh, yes, I don't have an only fans, oh no, oh wait, oh wait, no.
Speaker 6:No, I thought you meant he's creating one to sell content. I thought we were with that joke, sorry we still could look.
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